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I am a 44 year old mother of three children and grandmother of one. I am divorced from my children's father whom I share joint physical custody of our youngest two children with. I have been married to my fabulous husband for over 9 near-perfect years. I LOVE this man! He is a wonderful generous, affectionate, tolerant and all forgiving husband. He is also a terrific step-dad/male role model to my kids and an even better grand father to our two year old grand daughter. My oldest daughter attends college to obtain her nursing degree. She has been on her own for over three years now (no longer part of a shared custody arrangement like her brother & sister) My middle daughter is in high school and plays on the freshmen volleyball & soccer teams. She's really creative and talented. My son is in middle school and plays hockey and lacrosse. He is a sweet sensitive boy who still says "I love you Mom" frequently. I work part time running an online ebay store. I have terrific and supportive relationships with my family, friends and of course my kids. I am extremely close to my sister, my Mom and my sister-in-laws. They are my best friends.

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Wednesday, October 17, 2007

Visiting Grandma

We have to fit in one more visit this year to my husbands Grandma.

We have been there three times this year.

She lives 4 hours from us by car, so a clear non-threat of snow or foul weather weekend on the calender is needed to make the trip before this year is up.

The first hour of our visit will consist of hearing which grandchild came when, who sent a card for Grandparents day, which grandchild is coming back next, whom has called the most, whom has called the least, who borrowed money, etc...

The next hour will consist of deciding where we will eat lunch. And the prayer Grandma will say at this meal will go something like this... "Dear Lord, Thank you for getting the kids safely to visit me FINALLY (emphasis on the word finally) ... hope they'll be able to stay LONGER than last time (emphasis on the word longer) ..." etc...

Then we'll go back to Grandma's and spend the next hour deciding where we will eat dinner ...

Repeat all of the above about 6 more times over the course of a weekend with lots of awkward silence in between ...

But, we love her ... and so we go.

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